I love helping my friends when I get the opportunity. It's like what I wrote before, I want to be used. And all of us do yet we have a hard time allowing others to do things for us. Anyway, my friend Bea's husband was shot last weekend; he is a cop. He will be okay but got 5 bullets and need a couple surgeries. They have 4 kids. I spent a day trying to figure out what hospital he was in so I could find Bea. I really just wanted to offer her support while she is dealing with this sudden change to her life's agenda. I mean it is huge. So I found her yesterday and we talked and I brought her food and helped her plan some things for the week. But it was chaotic. I will help her more toward the end of the week and on the weekend. And I can pray for her.
New topic, things are stressful at home with my step daughter still here from the holidays. She is leaving soon and it's time for her to go. I wish we were close but we have nothing in common at all. I don't even know who she is. She is not someone I would choose as a friend just knowing what I know and who I have observed. It's something Marty and I do agree on. He is grieving "losing" her because she is nothing like she used to be when she was little or who we thought she would become. No details but suffice it to say that it is sad and I wish I didn't have envy for others who really love and enjoy their young adult daughters.
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